Extremes are not healthy. In parenting nor in life.
If you spoon feed your child sometimes, it’s not true that you're not doing BLW.
If you use a disposable nappy on holiday, it's not true that the effort of using cloth nappies the remaining time doesn't matter.
If you buy a plastic toy, it’s not true that you are not Montessori.
If you co-sleep with your child, it’s not true that they will never sleep alone.
If you give formula, it’s not true that they will grow up unhealthy.
If you breastfeed, it’s not true that you need to be available 24/7.
Often, we have to live in the extreme to find a balance, and that's okay.
But only those who don't want to evolve stay in the extreme.