I look for and value discomfort, because that’s where evolution is.
When someone says something that makes me feel uncomfortable, the WHYs usually guide me towards what I need/want to change about myself.
Often, when I feel uncomfortable it’s because I have perceived a disagreement between who I am and who I want to be, and I have two options: I can either ignore the feeling or decide to go a little deeper inside myself and evolve. It’s harder, but I always choose to evolve. You?