La Tela di Carlotta
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We are not raising children, we are raising adults.

I want to show you an alternative way of raising kids, so that everyone's potential – parents’ and children’s – can shine. Because alone, I can’t change education, but together we can.

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The blog

I write mainly about Montessori, parenthood, and multilingualism. Here are some recent posts.

One day a few years ago my husband came home and said, "Why don't we put a mattress on the floor in the baby room? It'd be much more natural". "Never" was my reply. That's how our Montessori journey started. Since then we've been living, breathing and applying the philosophy at home day in and day out, starting from ourselves. Because educating children starts from the parents.
What if we gave a gift?
Two ways to solve sibling conflicts (only one works in the long term)
Don't force children to do something they don't want to do
Let's stop saying "be good" to a crying baby
The pilot story (or why not to punish children's mistakes)
Wait for their answers
Montessori VS "the real world"
Consent: workshop for kids
Montessori express: change the sentences into positive
Montessori express: everything is NOT fine
Living sustainably
Living sustainably for me doesn’t only mean to have a more eco-friendly lifestyle. It means to make decisions that are sustainable for our planet, the people on it, but also for our life, our lifestyle, and our happiness. It means to take any daily chance to evolve and be happier, healthier, kinder, more responsible and more caring human beings—the only sustainable way for a meaningful future.
Face yoga is an act of self love
Why you should wear the same outfit twice on Instagram
The power of creating habits (and why you should do it, even if you then break them!)
Responsible eating is the diet of the future (Would you like to teach it to your kids?)
The power of NOT complaining: can you do it for a whole month?
Clean up your planet, please!
Infographic: 8 steps to switch to cloth nappies (a guide for reluctant parents)
A personal note on happiness
A personal note on social media
A change of life always widens your horizons
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I’ve prepared collections on various topics that I’ve written over the years. Perhaps you’ll find one that interests you.


On my podcast, “Educare con calma”, I talk about various topics, from Montessori to sustainability. Only in Italian!

Nov 26, 2021 00:09:05
73. Ragnatela in 5': non siamo soli
In questo episodio di Educare con Calma rifletto in 5 minuti su una frase che scrivete spesso dopo aver ascoltato un episodio del mio podcast o aver letto un post del mio blog: "Mi hai fatto sentire meno sola/o". Nella trascrizione dell'episodio sul mio sito trovate la poesia che leggo in inglese. Se lo ascoltate su un'altra piattaforma, lo trovate su :: Come appoggiare il podcast: Io non faccio pubblicità e non accetto sponsor, perché le pubblicità alimentano il consumism...
Nov 19, 2021 00:44:16
72. Balbuzie: "Come ho sconfitto il mostro" / con Barbara Farinelli
In questo episodio di Educare con Calma parlo con Barbara Farinelli di un tema purtroppo ancora tabù: la balbuzie. È nato tutto da un messaggio su Instagram e ho sentito il desiderio di regalarvi una chiacchierata con lei per fare tutti insieme un'azione importante: distruggere il tabù. Ex manager, oggi studentessa in counselling, sostenitrice della genitorialità consapevole, Barbara vive in Inghilterra da 6 anni e 3 anni fa è diventata mamma, che è stata la svolta che l'ha convinta ad affron...
Nov 12, 2021 00:05:33
Montessori in 5': ma che società stiamo nutrendo?
In questo Montessori in 5' vi racconto un aneddoto triste che una mamma ha condiviso con me e che mi ha lasciata senza parole – quasi senza parole 😉 E vi lascio il mio augurio della settimana. :: Come appoggiare il podcast: Io non faccio pubblicità e non accetto sponsor, perché le pubblicità alimentano il consumismo e in più mi danno fastidio (quindi non voglio fare a voi una cosa che dà fastidio a me). Se vi piace il mio podcast e volete aiutarmi a mantenerlo vivo, potete aiutarmi a diffonde...


We sold everything to travel the world for two years. We're currently in New Zealand.


In 2020 I wrote 4 books for the Italian collection “Gioca and Impara con il metodo Montessori” curated by Grazia Honegger Fresco. The collection is a project by Il Corriere della Sera and La Gazzetta dello Sport.

We also implemented the workshops of the last 15 volumes of the collection with Oliver and Emily.


I update Instagram almost every day to be "close" to my family far away.

Why La Tela di Carlotta?
I dreamed of the name La Tela di Carlotta. One morning I woke up and in my dreams I had created a blog named just like the American novel (Charlotte's Web). Many years and endless ups and downs later, this web of thoughts and stories is my work. It took me a long time to understand what kind of online presence I wanted and today I know: I'm transparent, I show real life, I don't advertise, I only recommend sustainable brands (and not only because they pay me) and I believe in the value of my blog and my courses—because if we don't believe in the value of our work, no one will believe in it for us.
Carlotta dreaming of La Tela
I know! I don't want it to be over yet either.